i had two abortions. both happened during long term relationships. first pregnancy happened at 18, just because we were too young and silly. i’m incredibly happy that i did that and could study and work without any other “problems”. i wasn’t ready, nor was my bf. later i found out that he is a terrible man who lied to me a lot and who was stealing my money.

i had my abortion over a year ago now on april 12th 2013, i was 21 years old and 8 weeks pregnant. i had been dealing with morning sickness for weeks just thinking i was sick or had an allergy to something i was eating, being pregnant wasn't even a possibility in my mind since i was on the pill.

i was 22 years old and a senior in college when my boyfriend left me for another girl. i became very depressed and didn't find out i was pregnant until two months later. i was angry at myself for being so irresponsible, at my ex-boyfriend for the way he treated me, and at my family because i knew if i'd told them about the pregnancy, they'd have made me carry it to term.

when i found out in college i was pregnant i was instantly filled with panic and fear. i instantly knew i would have an abortion, i just dreaded having to actually figure out where and how, and wondered what it would be like to go through it alone. after it was all arranged and i arrived on the day i was really surprised to see who filled up the waiting room.

i was 23 years old. i had been with my boyfriend for 6 months. i was just starting my last year of graduate school. then, the unthinkable happened, my iud failed.

i got pregnant as a teen, by my boyfriend. he was irresponsible, and i had mental health problems. my parents were older, old enough to be my grandparents. they were not able or willing to help me raise a child. so they took me to have the surgical procedure, which was performed by an ob/gyn. he's the one who had verified that i was pregnant. the next year, still a teen having mental problems, i got pregnant again, by another irresponsible boyfriend.